今天我在巴士上做了件我觉得满勇敢的事。遇到了一个变态男子，用他下身顶住女生后边。我很清楚的看见，他是故意的。几个礼拜前，我是受害者。之后我陆续都有看见他，可是就很怕靠近他，或怕他靠近我。很多次看到他都是以一样的姿势站在女子后面，可是我都没看到他下半身的行动。今天我看到了他对住一个女的，很气愤，我也没有多想，巴士一停我就上前告诉车长，还指住那男的说就是他！或许是没遇过如此情形，声音都有些抖。不过至少好过我呆呆被人欺负，还有更多的女子被如此欺负。车长后来有一直盯住那男的应该，车上拥挤的人潮应该也有听到，希望这有帮助到吓吓他，毕竟每天巴士的搭客在那个时段都是那几个。多人懂，就多人防，多人防，他就不会那么容易得逞。后来放工又遇到一样的车长，他告诉我以后遇到这种情形直接告诉车长，不要离开巴士，可以马上报警扣留变态男子的。

或许新加坡的好很明显在安全方面比马来西亚好非常非常多。如果是在马国，我一定不会怎么做，应该就只有无奈。可是新国就不一样，真的是有公平的。或许没有100份的廉洁，可是至少人民是被保护的，政府是能像保护盾一样让我们可以信赖的住。马来西亚什么时候能如此呢？虽然不是最糟糕的，可是明显的还有很多进步的空间。

从小到大我遇过蛮多的变态事件。小学遇过在教堂我一个人荡秋千时献宝。快要中学时走路去游泳遇到有人看住泳池手淫，之后还光明正大的向着我。中学时在夜市被人偷捏屁股，是很用力的被人吃豆腐，不是插身而过。来新加坡先遇到偷窥的，又遇到偷袭击的。。。

女人天生的一个弱点，请小心看护自己。男人，请尽你的责任保护你的亲人朋友，也见义勇为些,打抱不平，是有差别的如果能如此。

My boyfriend was coming over to Singapore last weekend. This was our very 1st trip (not counting to his place at Miri)! So he finally met up with 2 of my besties, Sharon and May. We had visited to Zoo, Underwater world and dolphin lagoon at Sentosa. And he was so lucky (i think because he has a lucky girlfriend ^^), he had been called up to the front stage to play throw and catch with the sea lion at dolphin lagoon! When he looked back to the camera to see the photos that i took for him, he was so proud and said, "see, so many people snapped me!"

At first i thought the zoo and Sentosa visiting would be very tiring but fortunately it was not. We were kinda relax and flexible. Can you imaging when we visited the zoo, it rained and stopped like 5 or 6 times! We opened and closed the unbrella, we went in and out from different shelters along all the way. He complained about my umbrella saying it was too small...hehe..but i think it was just nice. TOO SMALL?? Hold me closer la then!
Next time if you want to go to Zoo and you notice the weather is not so good, you better buy the rain coat from the entrance (or you bring one in case cause zoo charge it at $5 per piece), cause it will rain and stop and rain and stop many many times! Umbrella will still limits you.

The animals and facilities are really well maintened. MUST pay a visit if you got a chance to come to Singapore! If you are lucky, i might be able to provide you free admission ticket!

Sentosa for me was so so. A leisure place free from the demand of work and duty! Can pay a visit to have a quick glance. If you want to take part in everything, you really need to ready quite a lot of S$.
Underwater was good for me as i love water and animals.

Our last station was Marina Bay Sands. This was a luxury place full of the glamour brands of fashion. A place to see see and walk walk, and photo shotting cause it has nice scenery.

The only photo i have, the rest are all with him.












The only conclusion from the trip is getting to know each others' style.

Somehow i realise, some gals who has not in a relationship before, they tend to be having not pleasant personality.

I have one colleague, at the age around 30, she is quite helpful at times. But when comes to some critical issue, i found that she can't put herself in the others shoes, another words, 没有同理心。She enjoyed people falling in the awkwardness situation. Typical type of people that 看好戏。New comer not so familiar in the field, asking for clarification, she will replied废话and turn around.
Isn't it rude for a 30 years old lady to have a response like that to a colleague?

I shouldn't comment her as without relationship before so she has this attitude,
I should comment,
perhaps, because of her attitude, she's still single at this age.

DIY for Wall Frame

All you have to buy are:-

1. Black cardboard
2. Print out your favourite photos
(or like me just go and buy some post cards that mimic the photo like i took)
3. Sharp knife
4. Ruler
5. Cutter mat (or anything that can works as cutter mat)
6. Double tape
7. Blue tab

Here it is

Buy the black cardboard ( better buy those "harder", it lasts long) and carry back to your nest. Mine is really a big one so 2 are enough. Wait! you need to measure your photo size and calculate the total measurement for the actually size you need before buy the card.





Do and mark the measurement at the back of the cardboard. Draw all before cut.










I don't have any ruler so i used a removeable book self to be my ruler and mat to cut it.

Can try using scissor but you can't get a nice cut. Use sharp knife then you can have this.

After cut one, try to put your photo on the card to test your mathematics. If correct, then go on cut all the rest. if not, please go back the 1st step and repeat again.

Done all cutting.

Now get all your photos ready, put the double tape at the back of every photos.

Tadah!! Finish all you will feel damn happy!

Used blue tab to tab it on the wall. You can simply tab at the places you wanted to without having design in your mind cause you can change it anytime. This is the good of magic blue tab! TIP: Don't use black blue tab, it leaves stains. Used the blue colour.

Special thanks to May for giving me the idea and helping me to grab all the ingredients.

I keep on feeling sleepy lately during working hour. The tiredness especially reflected on my eyes, barely can open my eyes… Should sleep more at night time. Get on bed a little bit earlier again perhaps.  

Due to the work boredom, I looked up for something to refresh myself by facebook-ing =.=  

Saw the videos from Tempting Heart Studio, a famous video shooting company for wedding at my hometown. I could recognize many of the brides and bridegrooms. Is like “Wow…this guy finally gets married”, “Harr…this lady kahwin to him ah”, or “Woaw, I know this guy, he is freaking rich!” or “Wah, she is younger than me leh, why look like me younger than her…” something like these in my mind.  I describe it in a cultured manner here. Actually in my mind there are a bit exaggerate tone.

Mostly I know are those-i-can’t-remember-their-name-but-know-them-during-some-of-my-study-times. I think mostly are around my age or younger.  I guess is because my home town is a small place, people really get married not at the old age. Pretty obey with the traditional norm. I mean most of them. Ohya, talking about that, yesterday my mom told me a story of one of my primary tuition mate. (her mom is my mom’s friend too, but her mom is as fierce as tiger, no good people. Why? Because she always scolded me when I couldn’t close her car door tight which I suspected that it was her car problem. Am I was the 冤大鬼for her to let off her bad temper. It lasted for a year, some more I was only in primary, and my mom paid for the ride.) 

Okay, back to my tuition mate. She ran away with a Kuching guy and gave birth to a boy and a girl. Her mother claimed that they signed the marriage certificate (no wedding ceremony, no announcement). But now the guy left her. She now came back to my hometown and stayed with her parents and her wage now is barely enough to cover her children’s daily expenses. Which mean, her parents need to help rise up the two kids.  

The moral of the story are:-

* Parents play a vital role in rising up their children. Especially as a role model to show how love & responsibility work in life.

* Follow a guy only if he is willing to go through all the complicated wedding preparations and proper ceremony. Dumped the guy if he doesn’t want/not dare to meet your parents.

* If you are not pretty, please feed your brain with knowledge. Thick make up won’t cover the blemish of your “no brain”

* Only if you can provide basic needs to your offspring, you can go ahead to intercourse. Otherwise, please learn to DIY

To be frank, I am sorry for her. And I am grateful for what I have now. Although I did not always do well in appreciating my life, but I will keep learning non stop.

Besides, I saw a lot of my church friends getting married. Well, this is a happy scene for me. Fellowship friends, then couples, then getting married. Too fast the time pass, too bad I couldn’t catch up to witness any of them walking down the church. I never witness a church wedding before. Luckily there is Tempting Heart Studio putting up the video, I can still name the church by the design of the concrete building in the video. And it saves my time to witness a wedding ceremony.

Done! 6.00pm, going back home.z z Z Z

So fade up, there is no way I can do well in my job. I can’t do even though I wanted to. All the delays from you, because of you can’t finish this and that, it delays my works. I have no choice but have to selfishly think of a way to perk myself up.

 Mails I sent, you never look in detail. WTF I send you then?

 Door gift takes time to do printing and it is subject to stock availability. And you told me hold on to next week yet our D&D is on 16 Dec, less than a month for you to do what you wanna do. FUCK!

 You said you are busy cause need to do minutes of Business Review. ASSHOLE! Is your problem then! The meeting ended for a month yet you didn’t do the minutes until last minute, and you aspect me to always free to clean your shit! I have auditing need to do! You bastard knowing nothing and I need to teach you that too! No time for me to teach you too is it? Another mistake you created for me. In the end of the day you would say “Oh, Ping Ping didn’t tell me, I have no idea about that!”

I am bloody sick of your attitude.

Runing out of idea of how to express. In words.

Let's make it simple.

Thanks God for the leading as we met each others' parent in one day. It went smoothly and he has lots of good charaters to credit for himself. My parents like him. It was totally different with the first time they heard about him and now. Dramatic change. Thanks for the leading. Thanks baby. Good job!

I gained weight, but, not as heavy as the last post saying 56.2kg, but close to this figure. Looking back to the 减肥计划 i did follow the instrustions, but not entirely. Probably that's why. The exercise part i couldn't achieve it. Fail it..And my parents said my face like "pao zhi" =.=

Getting ready to go back to Sarawak. Uncertainties sometimes feared me. I need strong faith on it.

A bit over budget lately due to some advance expenses. Have to handle it wisely. Have-fun-still-but-not-too-over-cause-it's-soon-to-end-here

My friend's PR approved! It seems that we are heading to different direction. I do hope what she does is what she likes.

Nana is getting more mature. Hard times torn us to be a better man.

Going to do a health screening tomorrow. Hope my period can delay a bit this month for the blood taking. The least i don't want to have is to loss my health while feeding by Sg$.