On Valentines day, i went to have steamboat dinner with some fellowship friends. They called it girls talk. So it was basically people asking around how many relationships you had before and how drastic your love stories were and asked you to share around with. (Is this called girls talk?? i don't think so but if the stories would help up on someone or something then it can be considered as girls talk)
My stories to share were simple. 3 relationships and each one taught me more and more to become a better man.
I don't quite like to step myself into someone's emotional problem. Especially love problem. Cause i think no one can help if he or she didn't work out something. We most of time playing the listener role.
And if i am not mature enough, i might have some phobia simply based on others view, which is fool enough to ruin my happy day.
A lady told us about her dissatisfaction towards her husband who she proclaimed he was not paying enough attention on her. Like not replying message on valentines day when he went overseas for business trip. Not sending a message to wish her happy birthday although they had the celebration together early. And he didn't catch the the only precious moment they have together in the weekend cause they are working apart at different countries. She is like having a lot of "wantings" without her husband's knowledge. She is really bothering and upset. So what should we do? Based on my limited experiences, i only told her communication of her feeling and thoughts is important to maintain a healthy relationship with her partner. But what horrified me was when we stopped by at a DVD shop and been caught attention by the Twilight Saga movie the shop played, she suddenly told me that her husband must be went out to have fun with friends and then continue for happy hours....
Erm...i think that lady has some problem too. She can think of so many "wu eh bo eh" ( Mind me, i don't want to become like this!)
I feel like still a lot can be done. Hope she can figure it out.
Anyway, talk about valentines day in Singapore, people here are more daring. They kissed in front of the crowd, they were flowers on girls and boys hands. Not only that, some mothers got it too! They tend to go out eat at nice restaurants and they really see this day important day!
It was very fake to me and feel funny too because of the small bouquet of the flowers they had. Okay la, because the price of flowers was super duber expensive on V day, so reasonable. But funny still.
Did i mentioned about a girl from my home town to come to work here almost at the same time as i am? She was jobless recently. She thought of going back to sibu and start a new life again if she can't find any jobs here.
I sms her this morning cause got job recommendation from friend. But she told me this time that she decided to go back to Sibu by the end of February. It is good that she finally go back cause she told me previously that she was really stress working here. Able to be flexible is good.
On the other hand, i feel grateful cause i managed to go through it. I really.
